Maid; i feel that your question to our esteemed poster was accusatory and frankly abusive. Wanting to be with people who understand your personality because they have a similar neurological makeup is not “reveling”, it is feeling validated and familiar, and not the “other”. We’re not talking about someone who is, say overweight, and prefers being around obese people to not feel that they have to lose weight. Autistic people are born autistic and that’s how hashem made them; they deserve to feel comfortable among us and each other just as much as anyone else. Whatever differences they have socially etc, are not our business. Our business is to be mekayam veahavta lereacha kamocha and nothing more.
Think of it this way; you’re lubavitch, I’m guessing from your acreenane. Imagine never being around anyone – not one person, who has heard of lubavitch, nor are they interested to. They’re all, say… mongolians. They don’t even speak English. Wouldn’t you miss being around other yidden and especially around other chabadniks? Does that mean you’re “revelling”?
Ephraim has been hurt enough as it is, let’s not add insult to injury.