Syag; there’s a difference between how i deal with people offline, versus how i respond to ideas expressed by anonymous users, in responses that are likewise anonymous and not aimed at any person individually. I have no idea who “mindful” is, I’m only pointing out that this reaction proved my point about chaim jachter’s horrific duplicity. And he is someone I’ll talk about because he’s a public figure who has spread disinformation on important Torah principles.
Other posters, such as AAQ, I’ve developed something of a rapport with. I disagree with him a lot, but he seems to be talking m the aforementioned wavelength; it’s not personal or emotional.
You’re right that there’s a time and place. I realize this may horrify some, but I’m involved in chinuch and have seen a fair deal of hatzlocha specifically with the subset of jewish communities that i rail about on here. Interpersonally, one must be non judgemental and “pick their battles” etc erc. I’m on here not to communicate with people, but to address what they say. I don’t think that’s destructive. I also don’t think I have a holy mission, a chiyuv machaah or something. If I can express torah thoughts that often are not spoken or known about, then I feel a sense of fulfillment in doing so.