What in the world are you going on about?? Do you make up your own halachas as you go along? Oh, that’s right, we’ve been here before.
Your statements couldn’t be further from reality. It is obvious where your insecurities lie, but that doesn’t give you a free pass to “pasken like mommy”, pretend women learn enough to not need to check in with their husband’s, or to call torah topics esoteric.