“If we treat every potential tzniyus issue (a bekiyus) as a major problem and block it out, then we’re just training boys and men to see every women as a source of tayvoh…”
Unfortunately, that mindset seems to have taken hold within a very limited set of CR participants who regularly post “tzinius alerts” and/or start a new thread on the ‘tzinius outrage de jeur” or blaming some natural tragedy on failure of women to be sufficiently observant of hilchos tzinius.