The media machine is very powerful. They can create a whole reality in which even those who disagree with them end up within the same framework.
Right after the elections, many people spoke about the oddities. The media create a narrative of how dangerous that talk is, how absurd it is and a big lie. They did this without outright arguing the case, for then you would simply disagree. They went way past this and used these ideas for the backdrop of future discussions.
This causes everyone to be ashamed to ever bring it up. It is hard to make an informed decision in such an environment. But at least keep an eye out to these methods and don’t fall prey.
To me it seems that the whole Jan6 committee was created for thus purpose — to stamp out any remnants of the annoying election critics, that isn’t dying fast enough. Notice that nothing was ever put out to directly contradict the claims, just counter-lawsuits, arrests, service denials, committees, and ridicule.