AAQ at 11:12 –
“don’t think anyone would object to your husband’s and yours dedication to Torah if you are using your own funds ”
AAQ at 5:53 –
“If your husband prefers learning, then his mother feels less obligated to help with him with something he does not bother to attend to himself. ”
“your husband can figure out how to work for a couple of hours a week. you said a Rav permitted it. Did you ask the Rav whether you are permitted to be machmir and not do that?”
AAQ at 9:09-
“Again, I don’t intend to put my nose into someone else’s family.”