well it’s not a good place to “vent”, they can still hear us and be turned off by rants. We have to always always keep the audience in mind, tearing people apart for things they don’t know about or understand is a shove out the door. I actually just heard a rav give a source for this in a parsha shiur. I will try to remember Bez”H, who and what.
a great idea: Find some way to get Joseph’s number, I think he’d be thrilled to chat with you.