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The Shidduch reference checking system teaches singles to perceive marriage as disposable.
A few weeks ago, there was a letter to the Yated Shidduch Column by a single’s mother who admitted to tossing away all of her adult childrens’ shidduch suggestions simply because the references were not instantly answering their phone calls or providing enough information.
Seriously? Is that how marriage works??
Imagine the following scenario:
You are an aguna who has been waiting a long time for your get. Finally, the day arrives for your nesinas haget, but your sister is bombarding each of the dayanim on their phones,
hoping these rabbanim will give answers to her questions about their single talmidim whom are being suggested to your sister’s single daughter.
Is this not disgusting?