Hashem has already chosen who your zivug is for life together, 40 days before you were even born and is just waiting for you to do your part of the RUCHNIUS hishtadlus of tefilla/prayer to Hashem together with Bitachon and Emunah faith and trust in Hashem.
Now ask yourself if your doing your hishtadlus….. Cause we all know Hashem already chose your zivug 40 days before you even stepped foot into this temporary physical world.
May Hashem help you so you do your hishtadlus and can get married at the right time bkarov