Dear Syag,
[I find that attitudes and spiritual well being do not correlate. I’ve seen boys who do not keep shabbos, wear tzitzis through thick and thin. I’ve seen all kinds of wayward Yidden davening for hours. I know of major kollel donors that do not believe in the power of learning Torah. And I have met many, many Yidden that are both cynical and committed.]
I’m not sensitive to criticisms on my values. Don’t leave me guessing. Just be blunt.