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CTL; looks like an example of daas baalei batim being hepech daas Torah.

Daas baaleibatim – marry the same socio-economic class
Chazal – nacheis darga venisiv it’sa

Daas baaleibatim – don’t have blind faith and question everything
Chazal – one who asks “what was before”, or other willful questioning of Hashem and Torah…well, i won’t say what the gemara and rishonim say about such things.