Your absolutely right but unfortunately today’s generation of children and teen’s demands on their parents are so high with also a lack of respect from making these demands on their own loving parents BUT
if we as their parents don’t give in to their demands and give each child the proper TLC time they each need one on one, then C”V they can start heading downward OTD and parents feel this has to be prevented at all prices even if it means a) giving in to their children’s demands b) buying them an expensive and tumah unkosher smartphone c) together with a car they can take anywhere with anyone C”V and many other examples and situations that today’s parent’s are giving to their frum orthodox Torah children that just ladt generation would never do such a thing to put our children’s yiddishkeit at risk.
May we all wake up and make sure we as parents are making the best and correct decisions and when needed ask your LOR what the correct way to go is in this situation cause each child is a personal and different situation then another child.