YO
I don’t understand why is it better
If a shadchan asks every family the same questions and rights them all down
Where does he/she live
how hold is he/she
What do thye do
what school/yeshiva did they go to
etc etc
isnt it much more efficent to just have them “pre-answer” all these standard questions?
Similarly why is it better if a person answers the same questions
Where does he/she live
how hold is he/she
What do thye do
what school/yeshiva did they go to
etc etc
to each shadchan they contact?
Isnt it more efficient to just right out these answers beforehand ?