“How much money do you make?
Do you own the house you live-in and the car you drive?
Are you married? Why are you not married?”
These are questions one doesn’t hear when meeting someone for the first time. Nobody does that. I have no idea why you groupe these together with innocuous things like where the person comes from.
Asking where a person went to yeshiva depends on the circumstances; if you’re talking for a while, it can be brought up, but usually you can tell if someone never went to a yeshiva at all on their lives (most BTs spend time in some sort of yeshiva) before such a question would come up, so it’s not embarrassing.