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🍫Syag Lchochma
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Avira- even if he knew it was so and had lots of research, it’s not something you post here. You’ve done that ‘unilateral based on your vast knowledge declaration’ thing where you decide what’s real or true and then tell people they are wrong unless can bring the proof you trust from a person you trust and then you’ll decide if you even believe them. Are you inviting him to speak out against chasidim with proof? Are you aware that you are inviting halachically prohibited behavior?

Let’s try this – I am aware of more than a handful of abused, berated and/or ignored women who are not divorced and won’t divorce. Some live parallel lives to their husband’s, some aren’t even on speaking terms, some sleep in the guest room, many live a gihenom of a life and are not divorced for various reasons.
If I know that many women in my small circle of acquaintances, there must be thousands out there. Spoiler alert, I am close with someone who writes gittin, or doesn’t. There are.
Wake up dude.