Reply To: SHIDUCHIM.

Mixed weddings were NOT the norm, it belonged to the lesser quality Jew! Absolutely, go check your history, ask Dad or Papa, Mom, or Grandma (if they’re frum) ask any Morey Horuah; if you know what that is! Or even simpler just open a Rambam Halachas Ishus, or Teshuva’s Nodei Beyehuda chapter 34, the Grah z”l end of chapter 40 read carefully, and you’ll be scared for your stupidity!

Or if you really don’t want to go that far; check out Prof. Jonathan D. Sarunas report of Feb 28, 1975, the most s… crimes were thanks to mixed seating, mixed dancing, mixed parties, and mixed gatherings! Not shocking,

Think’ why did Murun Rosh Yeshiva and Rav Kotler and following Rashei Yeshivas around the globe came out with an issur of dating! Yes, an issur on dating! The ‘most’ guten are thanks to those who are not afraid to be exposed to Eisha’s Ish, or Penuya at mixed banquets or wedding, parties ‘including Chanukah and Purim parties! (Listen closely to this: shhhh there’s an history of even with… close family members) FACT! FACT! FACT! Like it or not, its just because people don’t face these awful kinds of facts,

Arroyos is the very hardest issur for human beings, as the chazal teaches us ‘udum Nagaya eitsel atzmo’ mixed seating or seating close without mechitzah It is forbidden because it is not richuk nashim but rather kiruv nashim. Source: “צריך אדם להתרחק מן הנשים מאד מאד.‏”‎ (from שולחן ערוך אבן העזר ‎21:1) and what about Shmuras Einayim! Oh’ You all forgot about this one, right? That’s not chumra; that’s halacha.
So, what are you all talking about, are you all out of your minds?!!! It is 2022 but this has gone far far far from Kedushah, Taharah, Simchas Hachayim, and real Torah observant Yidden, Hakudush Baruch Hu should shine into our heart’s purity and truth, and being saved from sin, error, and evil,

We should all be zocheh to a super speedy exemption from gulos by Mashiach Tzidkeinu, and let’s all say Umein,