The conversation was never about resumes or pictures, it was about your crazy belief that an adult male who will not be able to move past a girl not presenting like expected, who will feel cheated, that “It only leads to more failed shidduchim” can still be considered a normal mature man who is ready for marriage.
This was after several derogatory comments, in several threads over several weeks about how women and their attitudes make them not marriage material or ready for marriage.
I was pointing out the inconsistency and imbalance of your views. Not talking about pictures and expectations.
You responded by blindly pretending we were talking about something else.
This is how it always seems to go. You make very definitive, often negative statements about people and when it is pointed out you go completely tangential. I wouldn’t even care except that you are putting down a lot of sincere, decent Jews. And random people that aren’t really paying attention end up thinking it makes sense.
nothing to do with resume photos.