See here for wishing for the dead a good feeling (??):
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?sits=1&req=41862&st=%d7%a7%d7%91%d7%a8%d7%99%d7%94%d7%9d&_rnd=0.27563267177930784
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It is astounding that one would assume that Torah Yiddin, Talmidai Chachamim who have our treasured Yiddishe sensitivities would do anything but look to Torasainu HaKedosha guidance on what is Pious conduct in this regard.
So far we’re batting 100!
With regard to a related subject: “Tzaddik yesod olam”, & “Tzaddika deispatar ishtakach bechulo olmin yatir maibichayohe”!
Please remember to share with me the secret proprietary Litvish tietch for “YvOvKBH”ChH”.