@N0mesorah: gitin are an intrinsically Halachah-based issue. Putting other feelings before the letter of the Shulchan Aruch is not just a mistake but a travesty. There is no room for partisanship.
The Gemarah (Gitin 5A) is very clear that “כל השונה ממטבע שטבעו כחמים בגיטין יוציא והולד ממזר” which means that if you try to make an end run around what was proscribed by rabbinic authorities who are thousands of years farther up the chain of the mesorah than we are, the children WILL be mamzerim.
