You remind me of a maaseh that happened to me when I was in Ner Yisrael
I was collecting for our sister city in yahud (chinuch atzmai school) and we come to a house and the wife says they only give to zionistic causes so she asked if Ner Yisrael celebrates Yom haatzmaut to which we said no, then she asked if we say the prayer for the Medina hand we said no, so she didn’t give us any money
I finally understood the vort about the chasidah and realized why it’s not kosher