Dear Qwerty,
You are rushing to judge how other posters see you. Take it easy. It is not so rough here, unless you want it to be.
Having interacted with these same posters for several years, I would say your assessments are about twenty percent accurate.
Menachem Shmei is somewhat new around here. But he is a very level headed Lubavitcher. I want him to continue posting, so please don’t chase him away.