> Daycare providers are actually trained in this, and they play with the kids for a good part of the day.
Exactly. Parents are not trained. Give your kids to daycare/kindergarten/school/yeshiva/seminary/shadchan professionals and they’ll perform the mitzva of shinantem levanecha on your behalf with all chumros.
I would think that this amazing generation – dor hakollel – would be uniquely qualified to lead their own children to spiritual heights.