Poll: Which is worse?
1. Life in a marriage where a spouse physically disciplines their spouse and children, confines them to the home and otherwise restricts them based on twisted interpretations of Torah sources?
2. Life as a long term divorcee fighting with an ex over the kids, custody, visitation, money, support, asset separation/ownership and having the children used as pawns against them by the enemy parent?
Perhaps the multiple wives of our mod can enlighten us, if he lets them.