@GadolHadofi
Thank you for your good wishes.
I must say the process is quite different than what I went through more than 45 years ago.
Then you were concerned about the parents, now one may be subject to approval or veto by children and grandchildren.
I am moving through this slowly, my progeny has been provided for and are not concerned about losing yerushah.
I am not looking for a replacement for Mrs. CTL, but a companion and partner for the next stage of my life.
