And the girl in her high thirties who wants a ‘shtark learner’ is out to lunch. just like most of the young girls who claim to want strong learning boys. Almost every boy is out of learning at that age. The only ones who stay that long are both very committed and have had good mazal with their social life, family life, and finances.
Girls have no idea what a learner is.
Being registered in a yeshiva doesn’t make a learner.
Being a regular in Bais Medrash does.