“Telling your whole historical narrative to a chossid (at least a Chabad chossid – I can only talk for myself) is like a secular historian trying to convince a frum Yid about the “real way” that the Torah was composed by some random scholars…“
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The Rebbe makes it clear in hayom yom how to be mekusher even after ג tammuz.
This is one of those cases where you have to be swimming it these particular waters to appreciate it, an outside understanding will only confuse you.