Reply To: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe

In Chabad we learn to focus on ourselves and only see positive in others (unless we need to be mechanech.)

ברכנו אבינו כולנו כאחד

When do we receive Hashem’s brachos? Only when we are United with others.

Why do we (in Chabad) start with hareini? If I don’t Love every single Jew, my davening cannot draw down any brachos, because I’m a broken vessel.

A yid can find all kinds of reasons why something not good happens to himself, but to excuse others pain? Unacceptable.