Reply To: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe

Arso,

“ That’s why you have to ALWAYS be negative about the aspect you don’t want your daughter to accept. In decades of dealing with young people I have seen many people go completely off R”L, and many go partly off – some of them relatives, unfortunately – and it is nearly always because of parents/family expressing the “good side” of the person who is not frum.”

I think this would be the case if you confuse the two together. But if you acknowledge that is true, The woman isn’t dressed properly AND this doesn’t have to be the impression you pick up about her, you’re educating on both.

And it definitely takes education to see the good in others more than what’s lacking. What education do you do in that respect?