Those aren’t the only two options.
I argue for the sake of, i hope, kovod shomayim. And i do learn some things along the way.
There are some things I’m not open to, such as the avodah zara of nationalism, feminism, god-in-a-body ideology, internet filters not being important, drafting bochurim, and other things that the gedolim said were off limits.
But other things I’ll consider if they’re not apikorsus according to gedolei yisroel.