> She may have a strong preference who she wants to be married to after Techiyas Hameisim.
Lost > According to shaar hagilgulim
Ok, so she might let Hashem know of her preferences when she davens. Why are you spending your energy on figuring out who will be whose wife in olam habo. In this world, halakha presumes that a woman prefers someone to bring (uncooked) food into the house and say kiddush for her. Use your energy on that. Convince your wives to do chesed and add another one.