YYA > How would one do that?
From your description, I think you are doing your part, this is great. I don’t think you should feel that existence of anti-religious extremists is a sign that you are not doing the right thing, the question is how “average” people see it. And, as Gadol mentions, it should work both ways: your depiction of “modern” institutions is also in the extreme. I am sure all problems you describe exist and people who choose jobs should look carefully what they are selecting. I, for example, deal mostly with technology and the end result of the technology aligns well with what I think Torah wants from us and 23 genders are not relevant. I also run my own business so I don’t have to depend on someone else’s value judgment (idea picked up from one of my Teachers from Baltimore who publicly said that he does not want to join his mossad with a bigger one – whose rep was sitting right nearby). But if we are talking of the essence – using chochma, I don’t think academic craziness should be of concern – as long as you know how to filter information out (or someone can do it for you). Try mussar & mikvah from Steipler’s advise. Rambam used Muslim philosophy and science – but he also ran away from Spain when crazy Muslim were in charge.