AAQ- My kids are very young and while they have jobs, they are not cleaning the toilets.
And for me, the menuchas hanefesh of having someone give my house a good cleaning is worth a lot.
I try to be a good Jew, wife, mother, daughter and employee etc. I am not such a good cleaning lady and that’s okay.
On the other hand, I enjoy the kitchen and barely buy takeout, cheap clothing is good enough for my kids (as long as they are young enough not to care) and there are other ways where I save money.
Like I say, make a budget and please spend on your OWN needs.
Feel free to disagree.
