I don’t think anyone has a right to call third parties until they met the person on hand. Sorry but someone life is not your business. Until they tell you. Until you met them. Until they are ready to reveal what’s going on in their life. This system is disgusting. Humiliating and lacks humanity.sick. We are so sick. You will never find a perfect system. You will always end up with some surprise you could not control. What is wrong with us. We have zero faith in G-d and then we wonder why there’s a damn crisis.
