That’s your problem, the Torah is not a book about morality, it’s a book about serving Hashem. Kindness, Shabbos, loving others, and kashrus, are normally all part of serving Hashem, but not always: they each have their intrinsic limits. Just like you must violate Shabbos when necessary, you should violate love when necessary. It’s simple, no?
Israelidoc, reread what the Rebbe said, he doesn’t praise those who eat kosher accidently, he simply expects that they will eventually (but not now) get fear of heaven.
Back to none2.0: you confuse my will and hashems will. I don’t want to force people to do what I, doom777, order them to, because I don’t have any right to give them orders. I want to force people to do Hashem’s will, because he created and uplifts them, and it is severe ingratitude to live in His world and not abide by His rules.
I do agree with you that geula is mostly in your head, it’s about throwing out untruths and false ideologies, but then they have to be replaced with the true ideology: Torah. Everybody has an ideology, “live and let live” is also an ideology, just a really lousy one.