While it’s true that people should keep costs low in order to invest more in their kids
You do have to recognise time and attention is not the only thing our kids need from us, one of the very important thing they need from us is a good chinuch, and yeah we can cut costs of our fancy homes, cars, vacations, weddings, food standards, coz those won’t help our kids for their future life, and instead spend it on their frum education, importance towards mitzvos and yiddishkeit, coz these will help them towards having a happy meaningful life, at least as much as sitting and playing games would help them towards a happy meaningful life,
It’s very interesting that all the people busy bashing our community that we need to spend more times with the kids, it always comes back to compromising on yiddishkeit, that is not helpful for our kids, you care about them? You want to spend more time with them? Compromise on your selfish spenditure, no adult is a better person coz when he was young his father drove a nicer car…….
You obviously don’t understand what a good meaningful life means, it’s not having money and fun… I can tell you that much