Are we sacrificing our families to ideologies

I was talking to a few people, and they all seemed to want to quickly go back to work to “support the family” except they had quite a few kids who looked ecstatic amd happy that they were staying home for the time being
I asked honestly why they would do that to their kids,
Well, ” I want to”
“This is the lifestyle I chose”
On what alter
The suffering of your family?
Are we selling the stability of our families to “learning”

Making them suffer 6-8 hours a day because of belief system
What is wrong with us