I heard that in order to live in accodance to principles of reality things cannot be inversed. And inversing the roles actually leads to negitive consequences cuz it’s not following the natural way of things. This is from someone who is a kabblaist type person learned in certain spiritual principles, who has to unhook people from shaidim, which only gets a stronghold into peoples lives because they are not living in alignment with the natural order of things. I’m not saying the lifestyle isnt beautiful, I definitely can respect the beauty of the lifestyle, but anytime we inverse things it has spiritual consenquences
