I am amazed that each & every problem is the responsibility of the Rabbonim & since when can Rabbonim preach or teach common sense, in this case you all lack common sense as you dont know how to control yourself & dont know right from wrong, never mind in front of your kids, but you are coming out for the weekend & your wives are waiting & happy to see you & this is what you do. I am sure your wives prepared a beautiful shabbos meal & this is the way to thanks them, shame on all of you. as you dont even have self respect.
how come you dont do it all week in the city with your buddies & nobody will know ??
As for the Author of the letter let me copy your quote right here “all but one hour are a true Kiddush Hashem and I am proud to be a part of it ” sorry to say you are no better, as there is a famous saying birds of a feather flock together, you should have never been in this place to begin with, second, if you feel so repugnant by their behavior, why are you standing there & watching, you have nothing better to do, just pick yourself up & leave & maybe somebody will take a hint, but you are standing there & just watching, I am sure you are enjoying how they all behave.
There is a very famous expression ” you teach by example ” When you go to a Bungalow in the summer most decent people check out who their so called acquaintances who they are going to be & how come you did not do your due diligence.