Nothing posted on a website ever changed a person & sorry i am not trying to insult YWN.
but unforturnate that is the truth.
ONe more thing about changing other people, there is a very famous saying ” to change somebody else change yourself first ” that is exactly what i do & i dont care how others dress, act or get bombarded out of thier mind at a simcha.
There is a very famous saying by one of the great man from the previous generation. when you get to SHOMAIM they will not punish you for not being Reb Aron or Reb Moshe or Rav Birnenbaum, they will punish you for not being what you yourself was able to be.