nameless and oomis,
Thank you for sharing your stories. I think the story oomis related is the “flip side” of nameless’s story. The kallah’s family in nameless’s story recognized that they weren’t perfect, and therefore were relieved to find the chassan’s family, though wonderful, wasn’t perfect either. The woman oomis spoke to, on the other hand, seems to believe her son/ family is perfect, & deserves no less than perfection. The landlord’s daughter is lucky to have avoided this situation.