mariner,
Why do you feel all defensive? Who is putting the Litvish on the defense? You said that “how dare chassidim try to ram their minhagim down our throats?” But which Chasid is “ramming it down your throat”? And you said that “its always the litvish getting attacked, and im sick of it!” By whom? Which planet are you living on? Some fringe area? This isn’t the mainstream reality. You have quite an imagination!
You said that “i believe in zeh vezeh divrei elokim chayim. which means, not slamming one side to prove the other.” Well walk the walk, don’t just talk the talk.
You said that “the chassidim are the ones who have to give answers to questions.” You are a no one to tell anyone they have to answer questions.
“chassidishe minhagim have alot of problems” you said. I think YOU “have a lot of problems.”