REALIST: if you find it let me know.
To clarify my opinion, It’s not the Takanos, that i’m against
(see original post) it’s.. should they make them for this type of thing.
Today is different then Amol B”H
(in some cases that might sound wrong)
however every simcha today, even by the poorest of us there is
nice bilkalach for all, FurShpiez, NochShpiez, MittelShpiez,
chairs to sit on, tablecloths cutlery, sodas, music, be it a one-manband
or cd playing(i’ve actually been to a Chasunah like that)
waiters, etc..
who cares which hall? or how fancy?
Ice sculptures? waterfalls? Gevald!!!
Today all our simchas are made Batampt.
not like Amol where there was a huge difference
& people could feel ashamed.
We seems childish when such a Takanoh is actually made,
we’re talking about basic maturity, is our tzibur so immature?
that takanos have to be made on the most common sense things.
If this is ok, then they should make a takanah
that immature people shouldn’t get married!