Let us remember why the second bais hamikdosh was destroyed. It wasnt because of eating pork or not keeping shabbos or any other transgression like that. It was because fellow jews did not treat each other with respect and hated each other. If hashem judged all these people like they judge other people, everyone would be in big trouble. Who is man to judge? Judgement is for Hashem. The fact that less than 10% of jews are observant should be reason enough for people to reach out, instead of rebuking. That will never get people to see things your way. It only pushes them further away.
