After thinking about the subject, I realize that with some women who don’t dress so tzniyusdic, it’s a matter of frumkeit. With many people-especially I think alot of the people here-tzniyus has also begun to mean not dressing like an Ashkenazi charaidi. Denim-horrors! Colors other than dark blue or black-shikse! Does black twill make you closer to Hashem than pink denim?
Also, like the man who doesn’t always make it to minyan or whose language isn’t appropriate for a frum person, a woman dresses on her “level” of frumkeit. Not to “tease” not to entice but because she doesn’t care about what she feels is YOUR level of tzniyus. I don’t like seeing the women dressed the way they are, but I must tell you that I don’t much care for seeing men not acting like they realize Hashem is watching them when they are in business or on line in a store or driving and double parking and blocking people.
As for me, I do what I think is the way I should act and try not to stick my nose where it doesn’t belong and isn’t wanted. Might be a good idea for others.