kollelwife, if you were addressing me, I might tell you that I was b”h never told that my tznius was “questionable” in the slightest, so I am not “defending myself”, as you put it. I am actually talking from the perspective as a teacher of high school girls. It seems like you probably werent following the conversation, but your point was adressed, and I do agree with the fact that it is partially a man’s issue for the reason you stated, plus others, but not completely. The point I was bringing out is how to maximize effectiveness in this issue, which in my opinion is NOT to have men give the mussar. (this topic was also covered in the bungalow colony blog and the how to increase tznius blog)
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