torahis1,
I don’t think I “grossly misunderstood you”; the language you employ is unfortunately easily understood.
I don’t think I can help out further here, so if you don’t know “what I want from” you, then I wish you well.
To those posters who have demonstrated agreement with and understanding of milchig’s position- whether from the right, the left, or the center (and we all think we are the center, don’t we? :)), it can be done! I will use greater care to avoid judgmental labeling, tarring groups, and nasty exaggeration; I am certain others will join in this attempt.
Thank you milchig, and Hatzlachah to us all!