Smartcookie writes:
“HASHEM YISHMOR- since when do we only marry boys/girls that are attracting? If a girl has great Middos, is a balabuste, a Yiras Shomayim, and of course looks neat and put together- that’s enough. No need to get attracted before marriage. If she’s a good girl, any boy will get attracted to her for what she IS, not for what she LOOKS.”
No offence but are you living in a cave? Maybe this might make sense theoretically, but in REALITY? Take a poll at a local yeshiva and tell me what they say about this.