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November 18, 2008 7:11 pm at 7:11 pm
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I am not expressing an opinion on the actual issue. I am in no sense an expert. However, please keep in mind that just as you would think twice before saying yes, think twice before saying no. These days, you really have to pick and choose where you say no. If you are firm and not wishy washy about what you believe in but on the other hand permit your daughter to do certain things that are allowed, she will appreciate that you care about her and will probably not rebel. However if you say no to everything, without thoroughly thinking about it, there is a good chance she will resent it.