It is obvious to me, Heshy, that this is your oldest daughter, am I correct? I used to be just like you, and have learned the hard way not to ossur everything in order to protect. The kids start really resenting it. And then when you REALLY need to say no about something they won’t listen anymore. By the way, don’t let her read Bina or Mishpacha magazine cause she’ll see more shidduch crisis, anorexia, and other troubles of klal yisroel, too much for her tender eyes to see. I am sorry I am being sarcastic but be VERY careful. ASK A ROV or a friend with older children that you respect, why should you just go to the computer to ask personal things involving YOUR child. We don’t know you or your daughter, who are we to give advice?
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