oomis1105, I agree with you 100 % but would reiterate…
Why wait for the “child” to come to you with questions, why are you seemingly afraid to go to your child(ren) to ask them questions, get their opinions and learn where they are holding?! It is clear to me that many here don’t really even know their own children…
Where are the teens out there I for onw value your opinion on this, please weigh in…